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Hello and welcome to GabFest Reads for the month of April 2026. I am Emily Baslan,

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one of the hosts of Slate's political gapfest. I am so pleased to be here today with Mark Oppenheimer,

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who is the author of several books and teaches at the John C. Danforth Center on Religion and

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Politics at Wash You. We are here to talk about his new book, which I am a big fan of. It is

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called Judy Bloom, a life and it is a biography of the iconic author, Judy Bloom. Of course,

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the author of, are you there, God, it is me, Margaret, and everything else under the sun that we

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read is teenagers, Dini, and starring Sally J. Freeman as herself. Then again, maybe I won't,

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and SuperFudge and a million other things. Judy Bloom changed the face of literature for kids

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and young teenagers. She is one of the most successful authors I think of the 20th century ever.

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She sold about 90 million books. I think she is the, she is certainly one of the top five selling

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women authors ever and maybe the most successful Jewish woman author ever. I mean, there are all

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sorts of superlatives. 90 million books, it is just a lot of books, Emily.

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Really, I don't think I have sold 90 million books. That's more than being able to put together.

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Oh my God, so much more. We're not even in the universe. So many extra zeros.

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Exactly. So why? So why Judy Bloom? There were a lot of people in the moment she started in 1970

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who were starting to write what you call realistic novels for young, for like tweens, right? You're

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kind of distinguishing her from what we now think of as YA, young adult. So anyway, that's a lot

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of detail for me to be giving. But why? Why was she the person who generated so much love and

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controversy and so many book sales? Judy is the one who says that it's not YA. She always draws

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that distinction. So I honor her. There wasn't such a category. No one talked about YA. There was no

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category in the bookstore in 1970 for YA. And also her books really are as you indicate for middle

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grade readers or they're not young readers. I think you'd call them middle grade. Kids don't

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want to read their own age. They want to read about kids three or four years older. So books that are

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about 12 and 13 year olds like are you there? Got it to me, Margaret. You know, we're often read by

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nine and 10 year olds, which is to say like fifth fifth grade or so. She had two books that you could

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arguably say were really like YA. And that's forever and tiger eyes, which really are for like,

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let's say freshman in high school, you might call it. As to why her, you're totally right that she

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wasn't alone. She was part of a movement unsurprisingly, a sort of late 60s early 70s movement,

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aligning with the counter culture, aligning with second wave feminism, aligning with a new attention

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to the emotional lives of young people and particularly young girls. She was very contemporaneous

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with our bodies ourselves. She was contemporaneous with free to be you and me, which she actually

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contributed. She contributed a written piece to the book version of free to be you and me, which I

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hadn't realized. And that was really cool. So she was part of a broader social and cultural

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movement that included writers like E. Alconigsburg and S. E. Hinton of the outsiders, which was

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published a year or two before Margaret. So she wasn't alone and she wasn't V Pioneer, but she

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was a pioneer. In terms of why she caught the world's attention and ended up selling so darn many

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books and becoming such an icon. I think number one, of course, there is her talent and we could

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drill down a bit later if you want about like specifically what makes a Judy Bloom book a really

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good book. But also she was a relentless tourer. She went out on tour. She had hundreds of bookstores

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and libraries and JCCs and YMCA's and Hadassah meetings and ACLU meetings and I mean just everything.

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She would talk about her books anywhere. She's very good on the stump. She's charismatic.

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She's appealing. She has a great smile. I mean, one has to say like it. She's pretty and she

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always looked very youthful. So especially when she started out, say in 1970 when she was 32,

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she easily passed for 18 and so it was as if even though she was a mother of two, you know,

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she'd been married a decade and had two kids, but she was going out and talking to teens as if she were

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the big sister or the cool young aunt whom they'd always wanted. And you know, and then she stayed

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on the scene. She was enormously prolific. I mean, you'll think of someone like Se Hinton who wrote

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this extraordinary quartet of books, but then really stopped writing and Judy, you know, ended up

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writing a couple dozen books and 10 books in those first five years. So you put all those things

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together and you end up with a real cultural phenomenon. That all makes sense to me. So I pulled out

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a quote from you, which I thought was really helpful for my thinking about this. You write,

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Judy's innovation when she began writing was not to describe menstruation first kisses or

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teenagers orgasms. She'd grown up reading about these things. She just thought those topics didn't

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have to say sequestered in books for grownups. And I feel like you're talking about this kind of move

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where she is willing to be very frank and funny about sex and about girls' bodies and boys' bodies

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in this way that I remember being pretty revelatory for me as a teenager. Are you there, God? It's

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me, Mara Redd was published in 1970. I probably read it when I was like 10 or 11 definitely before I

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got my period. I wasn't like a huge Judy Bloom super fan. There were other writers who kind of

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spoke to me more like Paul Danzagar you mentioned briefly as you wrote this book called The Cat Ain't

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My Gymsuit. I really remember that. No, no plan was another one who was very big at the time. Paul

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Zindell, like there are these somewhat forgotten ones who are certainly literally as great as Judy.

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Yes. And I liked some of those writers better for whatever reason. And also like when you

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are reading as a kid you're not thinking about who came first or right. I didn't know that are

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you there, God? It's me, Margaret, like when it was published, et cetera. But I do remember the

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frankness about girls' bodies being important and helpful. And you know, one of the things that

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you explore so well as you talk about her childhood and why that might have made her into this person

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who was so frank and funny about sex. And you know, she grew up in like it sounded like a very

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pretty typical suburban Jewish New York household. Her mom was at home. Her dad was working,

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but they seemed those parents like they were kind of they raised her to be unashamed about

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sex in a way that seemed surprising for that era. Yeah, definitely. So the fact that she had

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been reading about these things in books for adults is interesting. Her parents were readers. Her

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mom in particular who hadn't gone to college. Her dad was a dentist and gone to college in dental

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school. But her mom hadn't was not educated, but was a big reader. And so Judy had been pulling

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books off of the shelves that her mother let her pull off the shelf. So you think of the sex and

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the death and the alcoholism in great Gatsby. I mean, there's a lot there. Think about all that

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goes on in Steinbach or Sinclair Lewis. She's reading these books that are totally frank about

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sexuality. A very important one was John O'Hara, whose book A Rage to Live was probably his best

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known, but he was huge. I mean, he was the equal of all of these people we now remember except

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he's been forgotten. And if you open a rage to live, which Judy, I think that her mom said she

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wasn't ready for it, but then her aunt Frances sneaked it over to her. She had an aunt who was

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ended up a high school principal and or principal and and was a big reader. And you know, and the

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that O'Hara book has within the first like 50 or 100 pages has a teenage girl get her period,

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talked to her mother about her period and full around with a boy who is very aggressive and it's

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a little bit obscure what happens, but it seems pretty rapy. It seems like he pushes things farther

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than she wants them to their in her room, their necking, their making out things go really quite far.

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So you know, let's say menstruation, rape, you know, body changes, all this stuff, but it's in a

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novel for adults. And and and that was where you got it if you were a bookish kid. So Judy's parents

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did allow her to be a bookish kid who read in an adult register and that that was progressive of

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them. But then the other thing was they were themselves quite comfortable with their bodies. Dad,

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in particular, dad would have Judy, I think the detail was that he would like sometimes let her

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clip his toenails and stuff like he would have her groom him sometimes which is very little. They,

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she took baths with her brother and sometimes dad was in the bath or the shower when they were

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very little. I mean, not not when she's 12 or 14, but but still like that was not creepy, but Frank

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and like, and and appropriately Frank, like, you know, Frank about nudity with a four or six

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year old in a way that people get more modest when, you know, a girl is an adolescent and you know,

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they were quite contemporary parents in that way. And also her sort of very casual nominal Jewish

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upbringing, the conservative synagogue they belong to, but never went to quite typical

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was was not, you know, there were no, it wasn't like the Catholic church where there were sermons

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about, you know, if a boy touches you here, you could go to hell. I mean, she wasn't getting

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preached out by anybody about her virtue or her purity or her chastity. And so when she discovered

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fooling around with a female friend, which she did a few times when she discovered masturbation,

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there there was no set it was like cool. I've discovered this thing. There was no sense like

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if mom found out that I would be told I'm going to hell. I mean, it would be embarrassing because

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you don't want your parents to find out those things about you, but there was no sense that her

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soul was at stake or that her character was at stake. The reason not to get pregnant for

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Judy and her friends was because it could ruin your life. Like then you'd have to get married and

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you know, you wouldn't finish high school. I mean, there were pragmatic,

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prudential reasons to save yourself for marriage, but it wasn't about whether you were a good person

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or not. Right. And thinking about those prudential reasons could also be a reason to be frank about

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sex, right? And in forever, which as you were saying is like real YA and has a lot of sex in it

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and famously a penis named Ralph. That really is like the detail of Judy Bloom that one remembers

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forever, forever. I mean, that is a special that was kind of a special book to me. And the reason is

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that it's quite positive about teenage sex. Like it's not about, you know, this is the road to hell

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or like anyone like people are there's a lot of pleasure in that book, which I think is I don't

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know, I was trying to say. Judy said, so this is also interesting because the 70s were a time as

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we've discussed where there was a sort of new frankness in the literature for young people,

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but a lot of that frankness came packaged as like scare stories as horror stories. There were

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there were like a lot of novels for young people in which, you know, the girl sort of goes off,

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you know, off the path and ends up smoking cigarettes and that's the gateway to weed and that's the

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gateway to heroin and that's the gateway to being raped in the back of a car and then she has to have

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an abortion and like sex is always, it's not that the girl was at fault necessarily, but it's super

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bad and it's the result of all these bad choices and it's painful and horrible and then she's not

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going to have sex again for 10 years until she, you know, is an adult and finds a nice boy and whatever

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and Judy's daughter, Randy, said to her at one point, mom, I'm so sick of reading, you know,

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like books in which sex is always this like horrible, you know, coercive thing or this thing that

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you're ashamed of afterwards or it's the wrong guy, just where it ends badly. And so Judy decided

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to write a book in which the sex goes well in which teenage sex is consensual and pleasurable

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and a little bit awkward and weird as teenage sex as all sex is when you're having it with someone

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for the first time and and that's the book she writes and what's you and but here's the master's

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stroke. Here's the real bit of genius is that they break up at the end is that it's not like oh

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Catherine and Michael, I think it's Catherine Michael, right? It's not like they fall in love at 18

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of mutually pleasurable sex and then stay together till marriage or even stay together through college

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and it's like they're each other's first great love. They're not that in love and she goes

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off to a summer camp and starts fooling around with the tennis instructor and I think he starts

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college before she does and he's going to do stuff and like it's totally what everyone remembers.

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Like it's the best case scenario for high school, which is like and until then they still have good

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sex like yeah, yeah, exactly and those all those other things can also be true. They have a bunch

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of good sex and then summer camp and college kind of ruins things and then they break up and presumably

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now they have a good template for sex. Like that was actually more revolutionary than if they'd

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like lost their virginity before marriage but had them stayed together for 10 years, right? Which

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would have in a way still continued the like trope of you want sex to be magical and perfect and

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virtue us or something. So no, that was that was Randy's idea. I love that. So here's a thing that

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really surprised me. Your rendition of Judy Bloom seems to suggest that she was like a popular girl

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in junior high and high school. She seemed to be kind of like a little bit running the show of her

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group of friends. One of her friends says she even then had poise. There was something pied

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piperish about her. People wanted to be in her aura and I have to say this kind of messed with me

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because I'm used to the idea that authors were myths, myths and had some moments being tortured

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like me and the idea that she could have just sort of like smoothly just kind of tripped through

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junior school and high school but then written so well about the awkwardness of adolescence.

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And that was so interesting. And then I started thinking a lot about blubber because the thing about

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blubber which to me is like one of her more memorable books and it's really about bullying. So when I

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was writing about bullying, it's good. I reread it. It's not told from the perspective of the

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victim. And maybe exactly. So how did you think about Judy's tween hood and adolescence?

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This is a super interesting vein because one of the critiques you find in the 70s and I guess in

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the 80s when people started writing critical articles about her and some of them are like scholarly

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articles in journals about children's literature or contemporary American literature. One of the

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attacks on her coming you might say from the left from the feminist left. The sort of they wouldn't

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have talked about fat shaming them but the sort of proto anti-bullying anti-fat shaming feminist

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left was that her protagonist, the people you identify with are these perky popular pretty girls

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who are not in any way misfits or outcasts. Your absolutely right that blubber is told from the

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perspective of a bystander, not really an upstander, not an ally, someone who takes a long time to sort

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of figure out where her own integrity is. And she's narrating the story of this classmate who's

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getting bullied for being heavy. And so it's Judy's identification as an author really is with

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the the normies, the mainstream kids and she was like yeah a normie and a mainstream kid and quite

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popular not only because she was nice which she really was and kind and decent to people but also

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because she was pretty and smart and thin and although you know she points out back then body type

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you know being being the strontiest skinniest kid which she was wasn't always the prettiest right

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there's this was an error where like more bucsum girls were valued in in ways they're you know these

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things change over time. So that's a little bit complicated but she was always pretty she was always

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cheery she was popular she's has great sort of emotional intuitiveness I think she was good at

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making people feel seen she also had a really fun house her dad was a lot of fun and and her

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friends loved being there so her house was kind of the center of things for like little extended

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crowd of girls in starting an elementary school but in through middle school and and high school

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so or really middle school and high school so her identity was as somebody who was certainly not

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bullied or not othered and but she also had this talent which is what part of what makes for a

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great fiction writer for observation so in her books it's not shocking when you put this all together

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that the narrators or the the central characters are often popular and fairly you know within the

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bounds of what you might call normal mainstream clicks but they are good observers of what's

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going of the suffering going on with other people or the sort of eccentricity I mean forever too

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there's a fairly sympathetic character who's clearly coded as gay and I think ends up attempting

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suicide and you know it's it's sort of quasi-tragic the only queer or queer-ish character in Judy

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Blooms' Ove and but again this is told sympathetically but from the kind of authorial point of

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view of the mainstream characters in the in the relationship so that's you know there are people

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to who think of her as actually having reinforced stereotypes of what girls ought to be rather than

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having like smashed them interesting I was taken also with Judy as a second wave feminist so she

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goes to college she gets married fairly early to like a very appropriate but kind of boring

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guy he goes off and makes a living she has these two little kids and she's bored I mean she's like

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Betty for Dan you know a generation a mini-generation later and her first idea is to make felt art

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which she succeeds in selling to blooming dales I believe which was crazy yeah but also like goes

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to this quality in her that seems so much part of her success and you touched on this earlier but

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she was irrepressible and incredibly industrious I mean man she like takes a writing class she stays

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in touch with her teacher she just keeps going and you also make this really astute point that she

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is good at accepting criticism and also at rejecting it which is important because early on she gets

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this like hilarious rejection letter from this super condescending male editor that was so funny

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well the I mean the story there is he wasn't at her but he wasn't her editor he she hadn't submitted

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to him he'd actually helped shepherd some of the doctor sus books into print he was an editor but

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it wasn't a submission it was really an early thing and and her husband john bloom who yes was kind

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of the perfect boring first husband he was I say he was the big five he was tall dark handsome

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Jewish lawyer like you know every one of those he was like six foot something handsome army veteran

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he was the big six he was also like he was an army veteran he was tall dark handsome Jewish lawyer

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veteran I mean he was perfect six years or senior they met when she was like 19 he was 25 and he's

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finishing up his Jag core service and you know and but he knew somebody who knew somebody who was this

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editor who said he would look at Judy's book and that guy as you know wrote back this unbelievably

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condescending sexist scathing letter that basically was like look your work socks which you know

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to be fair at that point did it sucks in these particularly female ways and then he said things

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like now don't get your panties in a bunch you know don't go all girl on me pull up your big girl

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pants and do better and it's this weird mix of incredible ruthless condescension and also saying like

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there's hope like you made yeah it's on a note of now like you know throw this letter away and go make

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yourself great so he's a mess exactly genetic I mean what can you say except that some people

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temper mentally and genetically are are more able to receive 25 rejection letters many of them

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scathing and just keep going she really did and when she decided she needed a creative outlet as

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you say you know she she tried felt art which she sold on consignment through blooming dales children's

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department they were these like framed things like canvas or muslin backing with felt

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application glued onto them you'd buy them for a children's nursery and she sold a bunch of them

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for like six months and then didn't want to do that and she tried composing songs but then

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she would come up with a melody she liked to play piano and and she'd then hear the melody on

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the radio two days later and realize that she'd actually already heard that she'd stolen it from

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a popular a top 40 song and then she tried doing sort of children's illustrated books like rhyming

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doctor su style books for you know three and four and five year old and then finally takes this

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adult ed class with his teacher whom she and then then having made a little progress she signs up

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for the same class again even though it's the same syllabus and the teacher says like we're

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just going to be doing the same things and she says I just want to keep doing the homework

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and that homework turns into ikees house again it's really just her first book

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which is so personal like the book I was just so impressed with how she just doggedly kept going

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and she's also the kind of writer who's able to write really pretty quickly to revise a lot

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so fascinating that she doesn't revise dialogue because she just had a real ear for how people

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and particularly kids speak which is like really hard um yeah that period this explosion of

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productivity where she writes these ten famous books is just 10 books in five years it was really

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something I should also add not only was she getting all this rejection but she didn't have

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a soul to talk to about the writing life I mean when you think of like you and I and a lot of

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people we know who came up I mean we're the same sort of writer generation even if you were from

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the hinterlands and didn't like know any writers and I have to say I didn't know any writers going up

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if you didn't meet them in college maybe you went to an MFA program if you didn't do that well by

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certainly by 2000 so you could get on the internet and find somebody who might support you you know

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or some reading circle or reading group or something and obviously some people have more

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connections or a raised without greater sense of confidence and entitlement than others but

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it's very hard to to imagine how isolated she was I mean she didn't she was a housewife in New

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Jersey her husband was a lawyer her father was a dentist her friends had all gotten married and

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almost none had a career or had a career yet and when she finally got an acceptance letter from

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a publisher she didn't her husband wasn't that interested her kids were little her mom and dad

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I don't think her dad was dead her mom didn't know what she'd been up to she went hugged the mailman

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like that was that was the warm cherry face who she knew would be happy for her there was no agent

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no agent like she hugged the mailman yeah it's pretty awesome the just like self driven determination

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okay we have to talk about waifi this is her scandalous adult novel I confess I have never read

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waifi cover to cover only read the sex arts as a teenager I think lots of people probably experience

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that way it sounds kind of terrible perhaps in retrospect what animated that book why did she

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want to write an adult book and what is she working out in those pages yeah I mean so waifi she wrote

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I think she wanted to try flexing her creative muscle she wanted to write for older people she wrote

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it right after she finished sali j freeedman starring sali j freeedman as herself which is I think the

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most ambitious of her young people's books it's the most autobiographical I think it's the best I

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think it really holds up and it's crazy that it's never been made into a movie it's absolutely the

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most filmable of all of them and she was living in new mexico in this incredibly bad second marriage

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to a a you know southern baptist physicist whom she met from oak la homa from small town oak la

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homa whom she met on an airplane when her first marriage was falling apart and then when the

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marriage fell apart she quickly got in touch with this guy they'd exchanged addresses they clearly

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were into each other and started this romance this new jersey dc romance and he then had to move

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to england for work for six months or a year and she yanked her kids out of school and moved the whole

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family with him and got married in a london town hall in one of the like the burrows of london

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and then he quickly moved them all to new mexico so he could work at los alamos labs and so she zips

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the kids to new mexico to start school the next fall and so like their dad's back home their mom

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is like kind of going crazy and they're living with this stepfather new mexico and she's working out

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just like man issues I mean she she realizes that her first marriage started well and had its

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successes but ultimately wasn't right for her and then the romance that she thought was going to

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you know deliver on the promise of sexual freedom that she wanted in the mid 70s turns out to be a

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total disaster and she ends up getting pregnant twice by him and two abortions because she just

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can't imagine I mean she doesn't want more children and she can't imagine raising children with

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Tom kitchens and then she gets this office over a donut shop in town and starts writing waifi and

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waifi is basically her fantasy life manifest on the page it's a woman who doesn't leave the

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first marriage gets to keep the stable first husband but has ridiculous affairs um I now like

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forget all the plot points it's like I think maybe she sleeps with her brother in law certainly

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there's sex in some sort of pool like there's always pools and jacuzzi lots of jacuzzi that's a

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different adult novel where the jacuzzi's coming that's the nature that smart women but like it

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moves from pools to jacuzzi's there's a lot of like well watered well lubricated sex with hot men

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who are who are sometimes like you know quasi open marriages a bit it's ridiculous and

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um so she's you know she's working out her fantasy life and there are scenes that are so

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racy that actually her publisher won't publish them the um haleen mire who owns her publishing

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company and basically said of some of the scenes like my granddaughter reads your books I'm not

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putting this stuff in your book and yet a lot of racy material made in oh oh I mean it's

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it's it's crazy I mean I don't know like I is this a family show like do we want to talk about

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what some of you can we give it a spoiler you're welcome to say whatever you would like but you

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also don't have to I mean you know it's just look in today's porn saturated world none of this stuff

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probably none of it would blow the mind of a 12 year old but I mean for one thing she's always

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the main character is like always soaking through her panties she's so turned on by being around

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these men she's sleeping with it's like the movie theater seats get wet when they go to a movie

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uh it's just like you know so that's so that's one interesting detail um you know she has these

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affairs she gets gonorrhea by one of them and so she has to confess the affair to her husband

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and then they end up in this conversation about oral sex because it turns out her husband won't do

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it but the guy she's been sleeping with will so then her they decide that like he will but only

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if she shaves herself first like goes fully bald down there like that that will permit oral sex

32:31

which is like maybe some notion out there that that was the only way one could have it I it was

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new to me but I feel like that record anyway really so that idea like it's not part of my generation

32:42

but I feel like it then came back that idea interesting yeah and then the scene that was caught

32:47

because it was so racie involved sandy pressman the main character receiving oral sex from her dog

32:54

really glad they cut that but that was cut to be fair that was cut from the book um although

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New York magazine when they read an excerpt from my book like the description of that scene being cut

33:07

was exactly where they went I'm shocked as if whitey ends up so whitey you know her agent and her

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editors and lots of your life well her agent is happy to sell it she knows it'll be big but there

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are people in her life in her circle who say do not publish this because you have a career as a

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writer for children and this will ruin you as a right no one will take you seriously doing that

33:30

anymore or or publish it under a pseudonym and Judy you know to what I would say is her credit like

33:36

she stands behind her work and it's like no this is a Judy bloom book and it came out and it's sold

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a billion copies and um I will say in its defense there's some really interesting smart satire

33:47

on suburban materialism in whitey really sharp like the fact that her two nieces are basically forced

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by their parents to get nose jobs she has these two nieces who everyone's mystified are

33:59

homely because the mom is beautiful and the husband's very handsome and they get these two daughters

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with like big noses and are and I think they're pudgy also they're heavy and a big noses like the

34:09

two worst things that you can be and it's basically told to them you have to go to the hospital

34:14

when you turn 12 or the week before your bond so I don't know I forget and and get your noses fixed

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and nobody really gives the girls much choice in the matter and they get a discount because they're

34:23

two and they get a two for one discount from the plastic surgeon if because they're twins if they

34:27

go in on the same day two for one so like that's really sharp I mean I read that and cringed in a way

34:34

that reflected how good the satire was and I think that there are powers that Judy has as a writer

34:39

that didn't always come out in her adult fiction but you see these flashes of real brilliance

34:45

so she divorced twice then she has a third marriage that sounds like a wonderfully happy

34:50

companion it partnership what did you take away from this later part of her life she works a lot

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on making sure the books don't get banned that happened to her books a lot you point out it's

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not necessarily because they were the most controversial or salacious but because they were so

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popular they were all over the place but she's like really stalwart in defending other writers too

35:11

anyway what do you make of the sort of later I mean she keeps writing her she wrote until

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2015 when her last adult novel came out and you know she's well into her seventies by that point

35:22

but a lot of her life becomes the business of being a writer so not only responding to thousands of

35:27

fans she doesn't not every fan gets a personalized letter but hundreds of them do and the rest do get

35:33

some sort of response and she you know she employs a full-time secretary in part to be a

35:40

beautiful correspondent with her with her fans and a lot of it has to she begins working with Hollywood

35:46

on adaptations most of which come to come to not but but a lot of her right of her life as a professional

35:54

woman of letters is fighting challenges to read I'm always very careful about the word censorship

36:00

because I think that has legal connotations that weren't always in play like nobody was being put

36:06

in jail for selling her books the way people had been put in jail for selling lady chatterlies lover

36:10

and I think we just want to be careful about that nevertheless there were a lot of challenges to

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her books placement in school libraries and public libraries and a lot of attempts to keep them out

36:21

of the reach of children which she vigorously opposed and she ended up doing a lot of work I mean

36:25

hundreds if not thousands of hours with the national coalition against censorship promoting the

36:29

freedom to read and also getting other authors to join the fight you know there are a lot of notes

36:35

handwritten notes from her to you know Stephen King and Joyce Carolotes and Nora Efron and just

36:39

all of these other writers saying this is our fight and you have to you know give money by a table

36:44

at the at the benefit or put your name on the host committee or sign this petition or I mean she

36:48

was really the leader in that community the a writer is saying we really have to take this seriously

36:54

it's not enough for us to sit back and write best sellers and count our money like we have to make

36:58

sure the kids could read our books and that I think she will say is is one of the most important parts

37:03

of her legacy so we have a really recent Judy Bloom experience which is the movie version of Margaret

37:11

comes out in 2023 I thought this is a really fun movie but then I realized reading your work that

37:18

I was the total demographic for it and kind of the only demographic for it that you know women

37:23

of a certain age that had read Judy Bloom as kids or teenagers we're going to see this movie but

37:29

actual kids weren't what do you make of all that like is it that the story is dated in some way or

37:38

what why doesn't this movie take off really good movie why didn't it work you know it's a good

37:45

it does work I think it works it's a good movie but it doesn't like seems to have broken through

37:50

and like reintroduced Judy Bloom to a new generation correct right far more people if they've

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been introduced to Judy it's because their moms or dads assiduously read Judy to them read them

38:01

tells of a fourth grade nothing or superfudge the movie doesn't seem to have expanded her footprint

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and and by the way again it's a good movie it's a good indie film directed by Kelly

38:11

Friman Craig of edge of 17 produced by James L Brooks and it's it's a quality movie Rachel

38:19

McAdams Kathy Bates is the grandma one of the safty brothers I can't remember which one as the dad

38:25

and but you know number one I think it probably I probably was like the with the one male who saw

38:32

it in the whole country I think it didn't do well with men it turns out like kids don't go to the

38:36

movies unless their parents drag them I think they weren't prompted to screen to to stream this movie

38:43

that you know was based on a book that maybe they hadn't read although Margaret still sells quite

38:49

well but you know not what it once did I think also people in the film industry have said you know

38:58

to the extent I've asked about this period pieces are really hard I mean there was a I'm sure

39:03

there was discussion about whether to update the movie to the present give it the same plot but

39:07

said in 2020 or 2010 and if there was such discussion I don't know there was but there had to have been

39:14

um I'm glad they resisted that from for artistic reasons and some of the plot points would have been

39:20

hard like kids know more about their period at a younger age and so it would have changed the plot

39:24

but it probably would have sold more tickets I mean the reality is period movies in addition to

39:29

being very expensive are seen as niche movies that a lot of people are put off by it you know madman

39:35

almost didn't get greenlit because people thought like who would relate you know it's the it's the

39:39

late 50s or the early 60s so I think that you know variety did a big article when the movie

39:46

didn't do well I don't want to say tanks but to do I'll basically like where's the love and then

39:50

it didn't get any Oscar nods like where's the love and so a little bit of is is a bit mysterious

39:55

there were high hopes but you know didn't put didn't break through so one of the things you end on

40:02

you have a really lovely uh very honest epilogue and you ask this question is there another contemporary

40:08

author who has so collapsed the distance between herself and her readership and you're talking

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there about all her concern for the kids who are writing to her and her kind of continued sense of

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mission and nurturing fellow writers there's a lovely story about tyriah Jones um who bloom

40:25

introduced to her publisher um and bloom gave you lots of access for this book but then she got mad

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and kind of stopped talking to you or stopped with draw root drew from talking about the book and

40:36

what has that been like for you look we're we've both done a lot of magazine profiles of people

40:40

and as warm as they are and as as collaborative as they can feel they aren't really collaborations

40:45

and they're not meant to be there's an author and the author has a subject and some authors

40:51

they're subject to you know is geology and some it's pro football and some it's human beings who

40:55

am they're writing profiles of and so I've in a sense been down this road before so I always

41:01

expected that Judy would like parts of my book and dislike other parts and when I showed her a draft

41:07

that was exactly what happened and that's totally fine I also never thought that she would want

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to publicize the book with me or even for me it's not her book and she can be very magnanimous

41:18

with writers whom she's discovered or whom she wants to help uh Joyce Maynard tells a very

41:23

moving story about how Judy was so kind to her when Joyce was the the canceled writer of the day

41:28

before that was really the term of art um and tyriah Jones and others I mean there are people who didn't

41:35

make it into this book who are fairly well known writers who told stories that were just the same

41:38

story so I didn't have room for all of them about how Judy did them a solid and was so kind to them

41:43

and help promote their career um but that said like I never saw any reason why she would be out there

41:51

promoting my biography of her um and so you know I'm if she's read the final final version the one

41:58

that's between hard covers obviously like I want her to like it as I want everyone to like right

42:02

but maybe there is something inevitable about some distance and actually in some ways it it means

42:08

I mean the book feels independent so who knows perhaps that's why I mean look as you know for

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me read the book Judy started a memoir and then abandoned it and gave me the 20 pages of sort of

42:18

sketched out scenes from her her memoir which I incorporated which he wanted me to to to feel

42:24

free to use I wish she'd written that memoir like I would I still hope she writes it like what

42:29

that would be an amazing book is Judy's autobiography or memoir and you know the world is poor for

42:34

not having it there's definitely room for that book too in the meantime though um your book just

42:39

like was it a pleasure it had a kind of memory lane feeling to me um I love love children and young

42:48

adult literature and so I really enjoyed the chance to think about it again and also I thought your

42:54

analysis and insights into that in particular were um just so well done it's a very under theorized

43:01

part like when you think of how much today's universe let's say America today's America has been

43:07

formed by the mind and the creative genius of jk rolling and Suzanne Collins of the Hunger Games

43:14

and Rick Reardon of of Percy Jackson and I don't know who am I forgetting um the graphic novels

43:19

of rena tell jameir when you think of the the way in which our cultural landscape is is essentially

43:25

you know if there's any comment denominator beyond teller swift it's like four or five major

43:31

writers for young people rolling collins john green reardon you know you name it filipulman

43:38

and yet nobody writes about these people like it's it's interesting how under theorized they are

43:42

they don't get big biographies usually they don't even get big profiles you know like

43:47

Suzanne Collins created the Hunger Games I don't know the first thing about her

43:51

that's totally interesting all right mark go write those profiles I will totally read you on all

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of those authors I've done my time I you know I the truth is I'm not that well read in that stuff

44:02

you're probably better read said my wife's very well read on it I'm not that well read on these things

44:06

I'm well read on that stuff I will totally there you go that's my my future um well thanks so much

44:14

talking about this has been very fun uh and the book is Judy bloom a life that's it for this

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month's edition of Gabfest reads our producer is Nina porzuki Ben richman is senior director of

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operations of podcasts nilo bell is the executive director of podcast at slate and Hillary fry

44:34

is the editor in chief at slate john and david and i will be back soon in your feed for a political

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gap best until then for mark oftenheimer and for me um thank you so much for listening thanks mark

44:48

thanks that was fun

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